Everything below comes straight from the Bro Code and the session details. If your question isn’t here, ask Bro in the chat bubble or use the contact form. Nothing is too basic.
The basics
What is Cape Town Jacks?
Cape Town Jacks is an 18+ men-only social masturbation and jack-off club in Cape Town, South Africa. We host monthly sessions for solo, mutual and group masturbation and consensual oral play, in a sober, phone-free space built on clear consent.
Who can attend?
Adult men, 18 or older. We welcome men of every age over 18, body type, background, sexual orientation and level of experience, including trans men. Discrimination, body shaming, harassment and boundary violations are not tolerated.
Do I have to be gay to attend?
No. Cape Town Jacks is a place where men connect with men, whatever their sexual orientation. Gay, bisexual, straight, questioning: orientation does not determine eligibility, and nobody is asked to label himself at the door.
Is Cape Town Jacks 18+?
Yes. Strictly 18 or older, with no exceptions.
Can I come alone?
Yes. Most Bros arrive on their own.
Do I have to participate sexually?
No. Participation is always optional. Watching, playing alone or taking a break is completely welcome.
Can I just watch?
Yes. Watching and showing off are part of what happens at a session.
At a session
What happens at a Cape Town Jacks session?
Doors open at the advertised start time and close strictly 40 minutes later. There is no late entry. You are given a consent armband on arrival. From there the session focuses on solo, mutual and group masturbation, consensual oral play, watching and showing off, and consensual kissing, body contact and erotic touch.
What sexual activities are allowed?
You may masturbate alone or with other consenting Bros; give or receive consensual oral play; kiss, touch, dock, frot and enjoy body contact; watch or show off; use clean personal toys with consent; and touch another Bro according to his armband and verbal boundaries.
Is oral sex allowed?
Yes, consensual oral play is permitted.
Is anal sex allowed?
No. Anal penetration, fingering another guest, using anal toys on another guest, and rimming or any mouth-to-anus contact are never permitted. No exceptions.
What about ejaculating?
Use your words. Warn others verbally before you ejaculate. Heavy breathing or body language is not enough. Explicit permission is required before ejaculating on another person’s body or face.
Consent
How does consent work?
Consent must be clear, ongoing and freely given. Ask before touching unless the person is wearing a green armband. Consent to one activity does not automatically mean consent to another, and anyone may change his mind at any time.
What do the consent armbands mean?
Red: do not touch me. Yellow: ask me before touching me. Green: you may touch me, within the permitted play rules, without asking first. White: volunteer or event admin, not a consent band. The armband shows a Bro’s current consent level, and it never overrides what he says or does in the moment.
Can I change my mind during an interaction?
Yes, at any time. A clear “no”, a “stop”, hesitation or moving away all mean stop immediately. No pressure, no sulking, no second attempt.
What happens if someone breaks the Bro Code?
Breaking the code, including consent violations, prohibited play or privacy breaches, may result in immediate removal.
Privacy
Is my attendance private?
Yes. What happens at Jacks stays at Jacks. You may never reveal another guest’s identity, share details about someone’s attendance, or discuss another Bro’s private behaviour outside the event.
Are phones allowed?
No. Phones may not be used inside the event space.
Can photographs be taken?
No. Photographing or recording anyone is never permitted.
Sober space
Are alcohol or drugs allowed?
No. Cape Town Jacks is a sober space. Do not bring or consume alcohol, cannabis or 420 products, or recreational and party drugs, and do not arrive intoxicated or impaired. Anyone unable to communicate clear consent will be refused entry or removed.
Are poppers allowed?
Poppers are permitted but must be used responsibly. Respect anyone who asks that they not be used nearby, and never combine poppers with erectile-dysfunction medication.
What about prescribed medication?
Personal prescribed medication is permitted, but may never be shared.
Practical
Where are sessions held?
At CasaKink, 4 Engine Avenue, Montague Gardens, Cape Town. There is free street parking and it is roughly fifteen minutes from the CBD.
How often are events held?
Monthly. The upcoming dates are listed on the home page.
How do I buy a ticket?
Book online through FIXR. Each session on the home page links to its own FIXR event page. A limited number of tickets are also sold at the door.
Are tickets sold at the door?
Yes, a limited number, subject to capacity. Door tickets are card only — we do not accept cash — and a door ticket does not guarantee you a locker. Booking through FIXR is the safer bet if you want one.
How much is a ticket?
R250, whether you book through FIXR or pay at the door. On FIXR that shows as R228.48 plus a R21.52 booking fee, which comes to the same R250.
Can I get a refund?
Yes, depending on notice. More than 7 days before the session you get the ticket price back; between 48 hours and 7 days it is half, or a free move to another date; under 48 hours there is no refund but we will still move you if you ask before the session starts. FIXR’s booking fee and bank charges are deducted in every case, because that money goes to FIXR and the bank rather than to us.
Can I move my ticket to another date?
Yes, at no charge, as long as you email us before the session starts. Send the name on the booking, the date you booked and your FIXR reference if you have one. Once the session has started or passed we cannot move it. Ask in good time and it is never a problem.
What if I arrive late?
Doors open at the advertised start time and close strictly 40 minutes later. There is no late entry. Arriving after doors close means no entry, and the ticket cannot be refunded or moved afterwards, so plan your travel with room to spare.
What should I bring?
Very little. We supply lube, wet wipes, towels, locks and soap, and there is a shower if you want one. Drinks are on sale at the venue, but no alcohol.
What should I wear?
Nudity is fine. You can also wear briefs, a jockstrap, boxers, a T-shirt, small shorts, a vest, socks, shoes or flip flops, activewear or gym clothing, and a hoodie if it is cold. Thongs are fine, but we prefer no lace or feminine-presenting underwear. Approved kink gear includes leather harnesses, latex, collars, chain necklaces, pup hoods, net shirts, net underwear and chaps. No fully closed long pants.
What hygiene is expected?
Arrive clean and ready to play. Wash your hands before entering, keep fingernails short, clean and smooth, brush your teeth and use mouthwash, manage strong body odour or smoke smells, and avoid overpowering fragrances. Clean yourself, your toys and shared surfaces after use, and clean up any bodily fluids immediately. Soap and cleaning products are provided, and there is a shower on site.
Health
What about sexual health?
Do not attend if you are sick, infectious or experiencing symptoms that could place another guest at risk. Oral play and close sexual contact can transmit sexually transmitted infections; regular testing and informed sexual-health choices are encouraged. HIV-positive men are welcome, and no guest may be shamed, excluded or pressured to disclose private medical information.
For personal advice about testing, PrEP, vaccinations and prevention, speak to a qualified healthcare provider or sexual-health clinic. Cape Town Jacks does not give medical advice.
