The Bro Code

Jack-off and oral play

Cape Town Jacks events focus on:

• Solo, mutual and group masturbation.
• Consensual oral play.
• Watching and showing off.
• Consensual kissing, body contact and erotic touch.

Participation is always optional. Watching, playing alone or taking a break is completely welcome.

Anal penetration, fingering, anal toy sharing and rimming are never permitted. No exceptions.

Permitted play

You may:

• Masturbate alone or with other consenting Bros.
• Give or receive consensual oral play.
• Kiss, touch, dock, frot and enjoy body contact.
• Watch or show off.
• Use clean personal toys with consent.
• Touch another Bro according to his armband and verbal boundaries.

All play must remain within the rules and stop immediately when consent is withdrawn.

Prohibited play

The following are never permitted:

• Anal penetration.
• Fingering another guest.
• Using anal toys on another guest.
• Rimming or any mouth-to-anus contact.
• Urethral insertion or unsafe play.
• Touching someone against his stated boundaries.
• Continuing after someone says no, stops responding or moves away.
• Ejaculating on someone without explicit permission.

Breaking these rules may result in immediate removal and a permanent ban.

Dress code

No fully dressed play. Guests must strip down to:

• Naked.
• Underwear or a jockstrap.
• A T-shirt with underwear.
• Approved kink gear.

This is a masculine dress-code event. Women’s clothing is not permitted.

Do not wear anything sharp, unsafe or likely to injure another guest. Staff have the final say on whether clothing or gear is appropriate.

Ejaculation

Use your words, Bro. Warn others verbally before ejaculating. Heavy breathing or body language is not enough.

Explicit permission is required before ejaculating on another person’s body or face. Never deliberately ejaculate on anyone without consent. Clean up immediately using the products provided.

Explicit consent and mutual respect

Consent must be clear, ongoing and freely given. Ask before touching unless the person is wearing a green armband.

Consent to one activity does not automatically mean consent to another. Anyone may change his mind at any time. A clear “no,” “stop,” hesitation, moving away or removing your hand must be respected immediately.

No pressure. No sulking. No second attempt.

Discretion and anonymity

What happens at Jacks stays at Jacks. Never:

• Photograph or record anyone.
• Use your phone inside the event space.
• Reveal another guest’s identity.
• Share details about someone’s attendance.
• Discuss another Bro’s private behaviour outside the event.

Privacy violations may result in an immediate permanent ban.

Illness

Do not attend when you are sick, infectious or experiencing symptoms that could place another guest at risk.

Oral play and close sexual contact can transmit sexually transmitted infections. Regular testing and informed sexual-health choices are encouraged.

HIV-positive men are welcome. No guest may be shamed, excluded or pressured to disclose private medical information.

Speak to a qualified healthcare provider or sexual-health clinic for personal advice about testing, PrEP, vaccinations and prevention.

Sober-space policy

Cape Town Jacks is a sober space. Do not bring or consume:

• Alcohol.
• Cannabis or 420 products.
• Recreational or party drugs.

Do not arrive intoxicated or impaired. Anyone unable to communicate clear consent will be refused entry or removed.

Poppers are permitted but must be used responsibly. Respect anyone who asks that they not be used nearby.

Never combine poppers with erectile-dysfunction medication.

Personal prescribed medication is permitted but may never be shared.

Personal hygiene

Please arrive clean and ready to play. There is a shower on site. Guests must:

• Wash their hands before entering.
• Keep fingernails short, clean and smooth.
• Brush their teeth and use mouthwash.
• Manage strong body odour or smoke smells.
• Avoid overpowering fragrances.
• Clean themselves, toys and shared surfaces after use.
• Clean up any bodily fluids immediately.

Soap and cleaning products are provided.

Talking

Keep conversations quiet enough for everyone to hear and communicate consent clearly.

Friendly and sexy conversation is welcome, but loud or distracting discussions should be taken to the social area. After playing, avoid starting lengthy non-play conversations in the main play space. Respect anyone who asks you to lower your voice.

Armbands

Armbands show each Bro’s current consent level.

Consent can change at any time, verbally or by switching bands.

A verbal “no,” “stop,” moving away or any sign of discomfort always overrides the armband.

Ticket ownership and accountability

All ticket information must be accurate. When purchasing tickets for other guests, make sure they receive and understand the Bro Code before attending. Each guest remains responsible for his own behaviour.

Breaking the Bro Code may result in removal from the event, refusal of future entry and no refund.

Enforcement

Staff and volunteers are available throughout the event. Tell a staff member immediately when:

• Someone ignores your boundaries.
• You feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
• You witness prohibited activity.
• Someone appears intoxicated or unwell.
• You need help leaving a situation.

Depending on the seriousness of the behaviour, Cape Town Jacks may issue a warning, remove someone from the event or permanently ban them.

Serious consent violations, prohibited anal activity, rimming, violence, recording, intoxication or privacy breaches may result in immediate removal.