Brotherhood of men who bate together.
Cape Town Jacks is an 18+ men-only jack-off club in Cape Town, South Africa. Monthly sessions for solo, mutual and group masturbation and consensual oral play. Sober, phone-free and built on clear consent.
Sunday Session · Sun 20 Sep
About us
Brotherhood without the pressure.
Our sessions focus on masturbation and consensual oral play, with clear boundaries and respect at the centre.
We welcome men of every age over 18, body type, background, sexual orientation and level of experience, including trans men. Discrimination, body shaming, harassment and boundary violations are not tolerated.
Upcoming
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The Bro Code
Read the band. Use your words.
Respect the answer.
Armbands show each Bro’s current consent level. Consent can change at any time, and a verbal "no", moving away or any sign of discomfort always overrides the band.
Red
Do not touch me.
Yellow
Ask me before touching me.
Green
You may touch me, within the permitted play rules, without asking first.
White
Volunteer or event admin. Not a consent band.
Play
Masturbation, oral, kissing, docking, frotting, watching and showing off are permitted. No anal penetration, fingering, anal toy sharing or rimming. Clean up after yourself.
Consent
Ask before touching or ejaculating on anyone. Warn others before you cum. Boundaries must be respected at all times.
Dress & hygiene
Naked, underwear, jockstrap, T-shirt with underwear or approved kink gear. Arrive clean, keep nails short, avoid strong fragrance and don’t attend when sick.
Privacy & sobriety
No photos, phones or naming other guests. No alcohol, cannabis or recreational drugs. Poppers are permitted when used responsibly and never with ED medication.
What Bros say
From the floor
If my hometown had an event like Cape Town Jacks I would be very happy. I felt very welcome from the staff and regulars. I’ve been to similar jack events in London and NYC.
GlasgoWankThe attendees were decent, respectful, and clean! I had such a great time. The staff was friendly, the other bators chilled. Different shapes and sizes, but that’s the beauty of it.
ZeeYou guys all did a super job of making it fun and sexy and strangely relaxing to be naked and masturbate mutually with other guys!
PapaBearThe venue
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Useful links
CasaKink
Our venue host. Services for the kink and sex-positive communities.
Visit →BateWorld
A worldwide masturbation community. Find other bator friends.
Visit →Alcoholics Anonymous
Meetings across South Africa, free and anonymous. 24-hour helpline on 0861 435 722, or WhatsApp 073 021 2523.
Visit →Narcotics Anonymous
Western Cape meetings, free and anonymous. For anyone worried about chems, party drugs or where their using is going.
Visit →SADAG
South African Depression and Anxiety Group. Free counselling lines, 24-hour crisis support and articles worth reading.
Visit →Talk to Dr Mariska
A doctor we trust, on WhatsApp. Mental health, sexual health, PrEP, PEP and Doxy-PEP. Discreet, online, no shame.
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