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ABOUT CAPE TOWN JACKS

Cape Town Jacks was born during the COVID-19 pandemic when men connected virtually to share companionship and mutual masturbation. As restrictions lifted, the need for a physical space to continue this energy became clear. Many men feel pressure in hookup culture, where penetration is often the focus, leading to anxiety, performance issues, and body image struggles. Cape Town Jacks prioritizes social connection over sex, creating a space free from these pressures.

Inspired by clubs like Rain City Jacks and New York Jacks, we bring social masturbation to South Africa, welcoming men attracted to men or women, whether in long-term relationships, polyamory, NSA play, or solosex. Our members range from conventional to adventurous, forming a diverse, supportive community.

At Cape Town Jacks, nudity, horniness, and self-pleasure are celebrated. We offer a trans-male-friendly space and strictly prohibit anal penetration while allowing masturbation-focused play. Oral play is permitted at select special events (as listed in the event calendar).

By removing the need to negotiate sexual roles or disclose HIV status, our events provide a relaxed, hygienic environment. While we believe mutual masturbation is low-risk for STDs, we encourage regular sexual health screenings.

We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for discrimination—ageism, racism, and body shaming are strictly prohibited. Members must respect boundaries, seek consent, and follow our guidelines. No drug use is allowed, though poppers and responsible weed use are permitted. Any intoxication or loss of control will result in a permanent ban.

Cape Town Jacks fosters a respectful, welcoming space where men can embrace their sexuality without pressure or judgment.

Our Vision

To empower South African men to reconnect with their sexual and sensual selves, breaking the stigma that masturbation is merely “foreplay” or a prelude to sex. We celebrate the power of solo and mutual masturbation as a fulfilling and valid experience. Our goal is to build a supportive community where men forge genuine connections, form new friendships, and overcome the insecurities and loneliness often reinforced by hookup culture.